Imagine you could be everything you want to be in a year from now or two, imagine you don’t have to worry about having your dreams achieved so fast you decide to focus more on the process. Life could be a little easier on us if we could have the right perspective to things.
The majority of the problems humans go through are a result of not wearing the right lenses and seeing things for what they are. We don’t put things in the right perspective because we hang so bad to our feelings and dwell so much on our result
In us wanting things to happen so quickly, we miss the whole point of patience, and when these things don’t happen as planned anxiety kicks in and we feel stuck
The very possible way of putting things into perspective can be difficult sometimes, we have invested so many emotions into our problems and decide to dwell so much on them, looking for a solution to a problem that never existed.
The big question majority of people ask is how can they begin putting things into perspective and getting the right view to their problem that doesn’t end up putting them in a space of lack or being a handicap to take action
How to put things into perspective
You want to understand your definition gives things meaning. Things are things, words are words and they have no absolute definition or meaning till you develop one.
Your problems and issues in life might come from a place of lack of proper definition and in medical term misdiagnoses
Because your problem comes from the wrong definition they are not real and you have been taking the wrong medicine and feeling the wrong pain to a problem that was never yours.
So how do you put things in perspective? You learn to sit down, look deep into your problem and give it a proper definition, a definition of hope and positivity that removes the clouds from your head
Another aspect of putting things into perspective is to realize you are not the only one suffering from what you said you are suffering from and you won’t be the only one who walks around with problems.
The majority of people have had it worst and have made it out and made themselves a champion. So if they have made it out you too can make it out
By seeing things for what they are or removing yourself from the victim mentality, you can have a huge burden removed from you.
Instead of seeing it as a failure for not achieving your dreams in months you can shift your mindset and see it as a win because you failed early and learned the lesson earlier than expected
People walk around thinking time is not their friend but time can be your most real friend if you can shift your focus and see how much time you have in your hands.
You might be thinking you are too old to start afresh or start something new but there are people that have made it in their 40s and late 30s who are still grinding and believing in the hustle. Time is the friend of people, we are just not open to this idea yet
This is where I end today’s article, I hope you had fun reading it and ready to implement this into your life. Remember this is an open discussion and your comment is expected.
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