Life is hard enough, with everything happening around us from the problem we have to deal with to the troubles that go around the world. We are faced with trials and we have to fight to survive, this fight for survival ends up making us strong so we can face reality and everything it brings into our life. Our adversity ends up being our life reward.
People go through a hard time and think life is playing a joke on them, they feel the universe has forgotten them. They focus too much on the things they are going through, trying so much to avoid the pains of this moment.
Adversity when looked at from the outside looks like our life is crashing before our eyes. Everything continues to go wrong even when we put 100 percent effort into them. We are left in our own world trying to figure out what the hell is going and how we can get ourselves out of this darkness.
From the inside when we look closer at the things we are going through there’s some lesson we are learning that is written on the wall, we find ourselves growing in a way that won’t be possible when placed in comfort. In our discomfort, we happen to grow character and have a spirit of resilience.
All of a sudden it starts to feel like we are now able to survive in hell and hell starts feeling like heaven. We now have the power to take control of our lives and direct our purpose, getting out of this adversity becomes visible now
How to see the usefulness of adversity
Before we start experiencing this moment in our life we have to come to terms with our adversity and make a personal decision to utilize what is happening around us.
A lot of people go through this hard time in life but miss the blessing that comes with it, they were just not paying attention or making any conscious effort to make use of their pain
First adversity is not the end of the world, as a matter of fact, they are the doors to a new beginning filled with grace and everything we have ever prayed for.
When you ask the universe for a better life the universe make sure you are prepared for what you prayed for, the universe makes sure you are able to carry the responsibilities of what you prayed for.
That is the meaning of the difficulties you see in your life now, that’s what they are all about. The universe is preparing you for something and you have to be focused on passing that lesson the universe is throwing at you and quit seeing it as a hard life.
Secondly putting things in perspective helps see things the right way. When you put things in perspective you can see how things can change for you over-night, as long as you keep believing in yourself and doing the work you can go from level A to B.
This is where I end today’s article, I hope you had fun reading it and ready to implement this into your life. Remember this is an open discussion and your comment is expected.
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