The bad news is that failure is inevitable and no one can really say they missed it while living here on earth. The good news is we are wired and conditioned to bounce back from setbacks. No matter how difficult things may be or the road may look humans can rise from anything
The mind being our most powerful asset can do a lot of wonders in our life if we can just put it to its proper use. The mind is the atomic machine or bomb in our head waiting to take orders to detonate all the reasoning that brings us out of anything we are going through
Man was born with willpower, a power that can make him rise off anything this life throws at him. The reason man has failed to do so or get back on his feet is that man has slept on this God-given ability he possesses.
It is one thing to have great powers and it is another thing to have those powers and be unaware of them and the work that they can do in your life. To bounce back from setbacks man has to be aware of the powers within and learn how to utilize them for his benefit.
The majority of people never bounce back from setbacks, they never really get the chance to prove themselves to the world again and rise above the different powers and challenges keeping them down. A closer look at this you will want to call them lazy or they might have given up on themselves but most times this is not the case at all
Willpower and resilience are the two ability that makes just everybody bounce back from setbacks and to the person that fails to bounce back from setbacks, laziness wasn’t the core reason for them to remain down but the unawareness of this power in them and how to utilize them.
People aren’t lazy especially when trying to bounce back from setbacks, they are demotivated. You see, failure follows two-step, either you are not motivated enough and following the crowd or you are so motivated enough that failure seems to push you to the right part.
People fail and remain down because they are not motivated enough to stand up and go after what they want in the first place. It is not the failure or lack of urge to bounce back from setbacks it is just their lack of motivation about what they want.
Willpower and resilience can never amount to anything or make the sufficient change in a person’s life if there’s no urge or motivation to bounce back from setbacks
The need for willpower and resilience when trying to bounce back from setbacks
Willpower and resilience is the engine a person needs to bounce back from setbacks, but the urge and want is the fuel. Without the fuel and demotivation in a person, much change can’t be met or that person will never bounce back from setbacks.
Willpower can be said to be the ability to control one’s self with strong determination that allows you to do something difficult and resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. Combine these two qualities in us and we can rise from anything thrown our way.
With willpower, we can refuse to stay down and bounce back from setbacks by doing the job that gets us up and prove to the world how much of a winner we are. Willpower pushes us to go forward when we don’t feel like going forward. You might call it motivation or something else but something must push us to always see the bigger picture which keeps us moving.
Resilience keeps us pushing through the hard times of life because for us to get to our destination we have to face some challenges on the road. Some people might have the will but are not resilient enough to fight through the challenges so it gets difficult for them to bounce back from setbacks.
If you can know how to recognize these two strong qualities in you, you can bounce back from setbacks and I mean any setbacks. It might not be easy but it will be worth it.
This is where I end today’s article, I hope you had fun reading it and ready to implement this into your life. Remember this is an open discussion and your comment is expected.
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