Sometimes being ruthless is the easiest way to get things done but we are encouraged to be diplomatic at all times, learn to ask politely for what we want from life and hopefully, we can get what we want from life on a silver platter
This is the truth we have been led to believe right from the days of our childhood and this is the message that has been passed from generation to generation
But when we take a closer look at life and how people we look up to get what they want from life, things didn’t really happen that way for them. They knew what they wanted from life and went ahead diligently to get them.
Most times asking for permission doesn’t really grant us permission especially when we find ourselves in a field that is very competitive and where nothing gets handed down to anybody unless they fight for it and being ruthless in its pursuit.
The diplomatic approach to life being great sometimes doesn’t get us the result we seek in our life, we have got to be ruthless with what we believe in and go after it relentlessly till we find that spark that brings our dream to us.
The successful people we find around us today didn’t go about asking for permission or seeking approval for what they knew was theirs.
You have to believe that whatever you are chasing from life is yours already and when you realize this you go about living everyday like the world is holding what is yours.
Being ruthless might contradict everything we grew up learning in our community and even in our religious studies but regardless of how we look at life fortune favors the bold.
Due to years of being polite with our pursuit of life reward, it might not be in our nature to do otherwise and be confident in what we want from life but let’s look at the step to growing faith in ourselves.
How being ruthless in the pursuit of goals works
First of all, being clear with what we want from life. Having a clear vision of our wants and understanding the obstacle in our road to its completion will help us build a spirit of resilient when the road gets tougher and help us stick to the vision instead of chasing the next high
After you know what you want, go after it as if the world is keeping it away from you, go after it as if the world is holding what is yours and won’t let go of it.
Have a firm mind that you deserve everything you ever want from the world and that nobody will do the work better like you are going to do it. You were born for greatness and greatness you shall aspire to nothing more nothing less.
This is where I end today’s article, I hope you had fun reading it and ready to implement this into your life. Remember this is an open discussion and your comment is expected.
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